Dating a non committal man
On Wednesday, a Kickstarter project for a self-published book on picking up women entitled “Above The Game” started rocketing across blogs and Twitter. Ken Hoinsky shared excerpts from the upcoming book on r/seduction… As soon as the controversy broke, he took them down, but the Google cache is still available.The author, a regular poster on r/seduction, a sub-Reddit dedicated to exchanging tips on meeting and hooking up with women, was looking for ,000. Some samples: Never, ever, ever, wait for a SIGN before you escalate!
Quite the opposite in fact; I think that there’s a lot of good to be found in it.
One thing that most people who enter the pick-up community have in common is that they’re intimidated by women. Men who are at ease with women have an easier time talking to them, flirting with them and asking them out on dates; these are generally not the people who enter “how to meet women” into Google.
Many of the people who write in to me have literal anxiety attacks at the idea of approaching a woman and striking up a conversation with her.
This unhelpful attitude can frequently be found in the comments section of articles talking about the PUA community – the phrase “losers”, “freaks” and the like are tossed around fairly freely, which reinforces the idea that In many ways it’s easier for women.
Women are socialized to be more open with their feelings and insecurities, to not feel ashamed for asking for help or admitting weakness.